Wednesday, June 4, 2014

Keeping It Simple At Storytime


Graham opened his duck book and asked me to read to him.

I read from the page: "A game of tag, some hide-and-seek. Count to ten - watch out, don't peek!"

"What are the ducks saying?" he asked.

I considered the question for a moment and realized that he wasn't simply asking me to read the lines again.

"They're counting to 10," I replied. "1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10."

Then I went for extra credit.

"Maybe they're Spanish ducks," I added. "Uno. Dos. Tres. Cuatro. Cinco. Seis. Siete. Ocho. Nueve. Diez."

Graham smiled and said, "I think they're saying 'Quack. Quack. Quack.'"

Touche.

Sunday, February 23, 2014

Family Fun with the Tar Heels


Gone are the days when we headed to Franklin Street to celebrate a UNC victory against Duke. We settled instead for a family breakfast in Chapel Hill on Saturday, two days after the game.

We found ourselves back in Chapel Hill on Sunday for a UNC Kids Club event at the women's basketball game, where we helped celebrate Rameses' birthday with party hats, cake, and the birthday song at halftime.

The men's and women's basketball teams provided us with an entertaining end of the week and weekend.

With a Birthday Hat for Rameses

Standing Up to Take in the Action

Aubrey's First Basketball Game

Family Photo on Campus

One Tired Tar Heel

Heard at Home

"Graham, take that Goldfish out of your ear so it doesn't get stuck."

-Just another Sunday morning.


"My friends will be here. They will be good at swinging and sliding."

-Graham, while walking from the parking lot to the playground on Saturday


"Ok kids, I'm here!!!"

-Graham, upon arriving at the playground on Saturday

Sunday, February 16, 2014

Worth the Wait

The quick-moving snowstorm that hit North Carolina last Wednesday meant a treacherous commute home early that afternoon followed by two snow days that provided for lots of quality time with the kids.

Graham had never experienced snow until this winter. We've had two winter storms, and he's been ecstatic when given the chance to play in the snow.

It took three years, but it was worth the wait.

Erica pregnant with Graham.
Erica and Graham three years later.

We used the most recent storm to show how things change over time. The first photo is from the winter Erica was pregnant with Graham; the second photo marks the passage of three years time.

Graham was enamored with the second round of snow fall on Thursday. He climbed up on the bath tub to look out the window at it.
By Friday, we were able to brave the remaining ice on the roads for a family lunch at Chick Fil-A. Graham received the first of his Valentine's Day gifts - Superman chocolates and Disney stickers. Aubrey received her gift, too, which she put to use immediately, as you can see in the photo below.

My Valentine
We neglected to get a Valentine's Day card for Graham. It became clear as Erica and I exchanged our own cards that he wanted one, too. I dropped by Target after dinner and purchased a card for him along with some baseball cards. I could tell from his reaction that he liked them. I learned just how much he valued the cards prior to bedtime when he had me lock them in the fire safe.

We drove to Raleigh on Saturday. Faced, yet again, with a long wait at the Flying Biscuit Cafe, we traveled up the road to Simply Crepes for what turned out to be a delicious breakfast. Erica has wanted to visit Simply Crepes ever since I took the job at Ravenscroft, which is a mile or so down the road from the restaurant.

It took several months, but it was worth the wait.

After a late breakfast, we drove around Raleigh exploring neighborhoods in case we decide to move there. It made for a long afternoon. Graham took full advantage of his freedom from the back seat of the car when we stopped by a mall in Raleigh. He spent time on almost all of the kiddie rides, no matter whether we had paid for them to move or not. Imagination is a wonderful thing.

He has a special affinity for motorcycles lately. I had a hard time getting him to do anything except the motorcycle game at the bowling alley a couple of weeks ago. He rode the motorcycle at the mall as well. Given the wave you see below (presumably to his admiring fans), he felt like some kind of superstar.
Come Sunday, Erica finally had the chance to spend kid-free time away from the house. Graham decided on "Quiet Time" rather than a nap, which left me to rock Aubrey to sleep and earn quiet time of my own.

It wasn't long before Graham emerged from his room and knocked on our bedroom door. I answered his knock and discovered him with his puppy guitar ready to perform. He put on quite the show.

Then another.

And another.
It appeared that Graham's many curtain calls would curtail both of our quiet time. However, things indeed became quiet a short while later. Too quiet. My investigation revealed one tired little boy sacked out on the floor.

It took several minutes until I truly had quiet time, but it was worth the wait.

Saturday, November 16, 2013

What's in a Name?

Aubrey Bernadette Taylor.

What's in a name?

Well, Bernadette was my mother's middle name and is also my niece's middle name.

As for Aubrey, it's a name we selected on our own. One that means "ruler of elves."

So there's that.

A Welcome Visitor

We heard a faint knocking on the hospital room door, the kind of tapping that takes a moment to process before producing any kind of reaction. Soon we realized that this was the effort of a little hand.

The steady stream of pediatricians, residents, anesthesiologists, nurses, assistant nurses, lactation consultants, housekeepers, and dining services staff during the preceding 12 hours was being interrupted by the most welcome visitor. Graham had arrived to meet his little sister.

One of my favorite images following Aubrey's birth is committed to memory, not film. It's of Graham, discovered on the other side of that door, wearing a wide smile and holding a bouquet of pink roses as he exclaimed, "We found you!"

Graham had traversed the fifth-floor hallways of UNC Women's Hospital with Mimi and Pop-Pop in search of the number eight. We were in Room 5W08, a combination I unintentionally committed to memory as a byproduct of calling in food orders. Graham delivered his roses to Mommy, and we became a family of four in practice. 

Our final photo as a family of three, taken immediately
before departing for the hospital on Monday.
It was a difficult good-bye.
Graham shows Aubrey one of his gifts for her.
Big brother helps carry his sister to her bassinet.
One of our first photos as a family of four.
Headed home with a full back seat.

Meet the Newest Taylor

As I watched my bride walk down the aisle on our wedding day, I swore I'd never experience another moment when a woman looked so beautiful to me. Then I met my daughter.

Aubrey Bernadette Taylor joined our family on 11/12/13 at 12:28 a.m. Aubrey weighs 7 pounds, 14 ounces and already holds the distinction of being the first family member to arrive anywhere earlier than expected.

Erica is doing well and looks every bit as beautiful as she did that day seven years ago.